<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Note to Self: Gift Guides]]></title><description><![CDATA[Authentic picks for giving joy]]></description><link>https://www.notetoselfblog.com/s/gift-guides</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!cVid!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbeb96e6d-7cf5-4d92-80cf-a0bc84e0a86b_256x256.png</url><title>Note to Self: Gift Guides</title><link>https://www.notetoselfblog.com/s/gift-guides</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 08:31:10 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.notetoselfblog.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Sarah Tolzmann]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[notetosarah@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[notetosarah@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Note to Self]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Note to Self]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[notetosarah@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[notetosarah@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Note to Self]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[A Non-Amazon Gift Guide Part III: For the Novice Outdoorsy Person]]></title><description><![CDATA[It's me, the ex-New Yorker, I aspire to be outdoorsy.]]></description><link>https://www.notetoselfblog.com/p/a-non-amazon-gift-guide-part-iii</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.notetoselfblog.com/p/a-non-amazon-gift-guide-part-iii</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Note to Self]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2025 20:19:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!pV2K!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8f9e9ac9-25df-4d7b-9da8-25eb3187b544_1600x1962.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In case you missed it, prior <em>Gift Guides </em>are linked here<em>:</em><br><a href="https://substack.com/home/post/p-177740216">Part I - The Hosting Type</a><br><a href="https://substack.com/home/post/p-177942786">Part II - The Homebody</a><br>And all Gift Guide items are organized <a href="https://shopmy.us/shop/notetosarah?Section_id=1384260&amp;tab=collections">in my Shop here</a>. Enjoy!</p><p>For my third and final chapter of holiday gifting ideas, Part III is a nod to &#8220;touching grass,&#8221; as the kids say. These are some small and sometimes silly items to help enjoy time spent off devices and ideally outdoors. (Plus, a mini piece of art. Because all gift guides need art.)</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!pV2K!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8f9e9ac9-25df-4d7b-9da8-25eb3187b544_1600x1962.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!pV2K!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8f9e9ac9-25df-4d7b-9da8-25eb3187b544_1600x1962.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!pV2K!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8f9e9ac9-25df-4d7b-9da8-25eb3187b544_1600x1962.jpeg 848w, 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gardening gloves</a> by Gardenheir $12</p></li><li><p><a href="https://gardenheir.com/products/niwaki-mainichi-secateurs-2">Japanese pruners</a> (also a <a href="https://gardenheir.com/products/niwaki-mainichi-secateurs-japanese-pruners-left-handed">left-handed option)</a> via Gardenheir $59</p></li><li><p><a href="https://independentgoods.com/collections/all/products/wool-picnic-blanket-rainbow">Waterproof 100% wool picnic blanket &amp; carrier</a> via Independent Goods $210</p></li><li><p><a href="https://gardenheir.com/products/cyanotype-bandana-kit">Cyanotype bandana kit</a> via Gardenheir $59</p></li><li><p><a href="https://gardenheir.com/products/trail-basket">Trail basket weaving kit</a> via Gardenheir $98</p></li><li><p><em><a href="https://www.maisonflaneur.com/collections/new-in/products/copy-this-brain-has-too-many-tabs-open-tin-embossing-handmade-artwork">This Brain Has Too Many Tabs Open </a></em><a href="https://www.maisonflaneur.com/collections/new-in/products/copy-this-brain-has-too-many-tabs-open-tin-embossing-handmade-artwork">mini art</a> via Maison Flaneur $48</p></li><li><p><a href="https://independentgoods.com/products/picnic-basket-wine-carrier-table">Convertible picnic carrier/picnic table</a> (handmade) $190 via Independent Goods<br><em>How cool is this?? </em></p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.seavees.com/products/womens-bodega-clog-natural-and-recycled-rubber-fern">Cute garden clogs</a> by Seevees $110</p></li><li><p><a href="https://getsprints.com/collections/all-towels">Patterned car seat cover for dirt &amp; sweat protection</a> by Sprints $42<br><em>I have one of these for post-gym driving. Highly recommend. </em></p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/1732202661/watercolor-paint-palette-metal-mini?gpla=1&amp;gao=1&amp;&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=shopping_us_ps-a-craft_supplies_and_tools&amp;utm_custom1=_k_CjwKCAiAwqHIBhAEEiwAx9cTeYt85vQiMhn7T2LdCB5EWvC-FPPK2ItVtiEi0D-Hq5SaXHMivGx9cRoCHGMQAvD_BwE_k_&amp;utm_content=go_22633514631_182190774204_756432244988_pla-295462056867_c__1732202661_5302862200&amp;utm_custom2=22633514631&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=22633514631&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADtcfRK6f40lyrkJv1WdPvWo2cZ4K&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiAwqHIBhAEEiwAx9cTeYt85vQiMhn7T2LdCB5EWvC-FPPK2ItVtiEi0D-Hq5SaXHMivGx9cRoCHGMQAvD_BwE">Mini paint palette</a> via Etsy $38</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.dickblick.com/items/arches-watercolor-block-79-x-79-cold-press-140-lb-20-sheets/">Watercolor paper block</a> by Arches via Blick $34</p></li><li><p><a href="https://bit.ly/4hNcJma">Personalizable bocce kit</a> by L.L.Bean $129</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.sephora.com/product/kate-mcleod-dusk-stone-natural-insect-repellent-solid-body-lotion-bar-P511396?skuId=2765071&amp;icid2=products%20grid:p511396:product">Kate McLeod Dusk Stone</a> via Sephora $38</p></li><li><p><a href="https://bit.ly/4ohh3fX">Fielder drinks box cooler</a> via Anthropologie $228</p></li></ol><p>See you in the yard! </p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.notetoselfblog.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">This Substack is reader-supported. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Non-Amazon Gift Guide Part II: The Homebody]]></title><description><![CDATA[A Taurus-inspired gift guide]]></description><link>https://www.notetoselfblog.com/p/a-non-amazon-gift-guide-part-ii-the</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.notetoselfblog.com/p/a-non-amazon-gift-guide-part-ii-the</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Note to Self]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2025 01:34:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!mqKs!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4115415b-2e5e-4cb5-a55d-428e98d9cf9b_1602x1962.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For Part I: The Hosting Type (and a little more context), <a href="https://substack.com/home/post/p-177740216">click here</a>. </p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!mqKs!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4115415b-2e5e-4cb5-a55d-428e98d9cf9b_1602x1962.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" 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We love luxury, comfort, and are extremely loyal&#8212;especially to good products. This is an amalgamation of things I currently love, and things I would love to be gifted. <em>Hint hint&#8230;</em></p><ol><li><p><a href="https://mrboddington.com/products/scattergories-vintage-bookshelf-edition?_pos=124&amp;_sid=3675d1d0c&amp;_ss=r">Scattergories Vintage Bookshelf Edition</a> via Mr. Boddington Studio $50</p></li><li><p><a href="https://bit.ly/4nEv7Pw">Well Kept screen wipes</a> via Anthropologie $7<br><em>I keep these in my work bag and around the house.</em></p></li><li><p><a href="https://bit.ly/4qIgv4d">Foot masks</a> by Sephora $5<br><em>A winter essential</em> </p></li><li><p><a href="https://bit.ly/47HBvQ6">White Lotus quote needlepoint pillow</a> by Furbish Studio $98</p></li><li><p><a href="https://store.metmuseum.org/met-campus-championr-sweatshirt-metcampussweatshirt">Sweatshirt</a> by The Met $75 / $63.75 for Members</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.maisonflaneur.com/collections/ini-ceramique/products/rose-ceramic-matchbox?_gl=1*dc9k7g*_up*MQ..*_gs*MQ..&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiAwqHIBhAEEiwAx9cTeQEz-kvLslv3DvrS2scSek7FawhFrC94uZ28vtAeZdNvt5s3xpUOYxoCtKMQAvD_BwE&amp;gbraid=0AAAAACtAhXgV2NsX67gRbk8W1EW8qZf34&amp;variant=55591347913086">Ceramic matchbook</a> by Ini Ceramique via Maison Flaneur $63</p></li><li><p><a href="https://wetooktothewoods.com/collections/we-took-to-the-woods-candles/products/the-last-waltz-marbled-stag-label">The Last Waltz candle</a> from Greenville SC&#8217;s We Took to the Woods $56 <em>I buy one every year. Their seasonal pop-up store is exceptional.</em> </p></li><li><p><em><a href="https://www.carolynmisterek.com/limited-editions/no-142">Everyday Occurrence</a></em><a href="https://www.carolynmisterek.com/limited-editions/no-142"> daisy print</a> by Carolyn Misterek $70<br><em>This is hanging in my bathroom! I love the combination of the floral and the swirl, it feels like the beauty and confusion of everyday life. </em></p></li><li><p><a href="https://oliverpluff.com/collections/best-sellers/products/ginger-peach-teabags-in-signature-tin?selling_plan=5087396065">Ginger peach tea</a> by Charleston OG Oliver Pluff $15</p></li><li><p><a href="https://bit.ly/3WHBR46">Retractable 35W USB C charger</a> by Counterpart $44</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.aesop.com/hand-body/hand-washes-balms/resurrection-aromatique-hand-balm/BM06.html">Aromatic hand lotion</a> by Aesop $35 (the best)</p></li><li><p><a href="https://goop.com/goop-beauty-youth-boost-peptide-serum/p/?Size=30ml&amp;list=gwyneth-paltrows-picks">A truly excellent daily serum</a> by Goop Beauty $150</p></li><li><p><a href="https://bit.ly/3JDqoQ0">My go-to slippers</a> via L.L.Bean $99</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.newyorkpuzzlecompany.com/products/the-cloisters?variant=44251133968669&amp;country=US&amp;currency=USD&amp;utm_medium=product_sync&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_content=sag_organic&amp;utm_campaign=sag_organic&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=16997056719&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADPvjnnNYbTZ-W0XE5G9u5oji5_71&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwgpzIBhCOARIsABZm7vHPkiJE13mj_ihWYGlTllO6zvSAZIYu2Y--36lTMdBVg1N5M8lK2VEaAvKnEALw_wcB">The Cloisters 1500-piece puzzle</a> via New York Puzzle Company $32</p></li><li><p><a href="https://goop.com/therabody-theragun-mini-3-0/p/?Color=Desert+Rose&amp;list=wellness-shop">Theragun Mini</a> via Goop $210</p><p><em>An actual essential in my house. I use it all the time after the gym. </em></p></li><li><p><em><a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-new-york-times-cultured-traveler-100-trips-for-curious-minds-from-agadir-to-yogyakarta-barbara-ireland/b09ebb186efa4bea?ean=9783836571739&amp;next=t">The New York Times&#8217; Cultured Traveler</a></em> via Bookshop.org $46</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.sephora.com/product/cocoon-cleanse-solid-body-serum-cleanser-with-shea-butter-P507891?skuId=2711869&amp;icid2=">Hanni Body Moisturizing Shower Stone</a> via Sephora $18</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.maisonflaneur.com/collections/horosoaps">Horosoaps (horoscope sign soaps)</a> via Maison Flaneur $24</p></li><li><p><em><a href="https://overthemoon.com/products/chic-dogs-assouline?variant=46757441339609&amp;">Chic Dogs by Assouline</a></em> via Over the Moon $120</p></li></ol>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Non-Amazon Holiday Gift Guide Part I: The Hosting Type]]></title><description><![CDATA[Great things to give and receive this season without the taint of corporate toxicity.]]></description><link>https://www.notetoselfblog.com/p/a-non-amazon-holiday-gift-guide-part</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.notetoselfblog.com/p/a-non-amazon-holiday-gift-guide-part</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Note to Self]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2025 00:53:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vFQj!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffa52dd83-f0b4-479e-a594-cd5c4ccb3dc8_1632x1962.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My first Substack post is not meant to come from atop a soapbox, I assure you. But when I posted something to this effect of, &#8220;I&#8217;ll be judging people very harshly if they engage in any kind of Prime Day or Amazon haul this holiday season&#8221; on my Instagram Story earlier this week, the reaction was overwhelmingly, &#8220;YES. Thank you!!&#8221; I mean you, Influencers and Creators. Amazon sucks, ethically-speaking. They laid off 30,000 people right before the holidays despite a record $35 billion in profits in Q1 and Q2, and many of those people they just required to relocate due to arbitrary return-to-office mandates. They&#8217;re helping fund The Ballroom. Their founder is a tasteless, tactless, bored and boring little man. I&#8217;m over all of it, and I&#8217;m over acting like any of it is the price we pay for convenience. That&#8217;s B.S..</p><p>And guess what? <em>I</em> have an Amazon problem. I am a hypocrite. I have found myself ordering two, three, maybe four times a week. Toilet paper. Drill bits. Printer ink. Soy sauce. Tampons. Literally <em>anything</em>. My spending revolves heavily around their breadth and convenience. I can&#8217;t be pissed about the ethics of a company and not meet that gut reaction with some kind of solution, so I&#8217;m going to challenge myself to start shifting these habits step by step.</p><p>In this spirit, I have put together some <em>great</em> gifts recommendations and ideas that are decidedly not from The Everything Store. I hope it inspires some diversified spending, and support of small and medium businesses who need all the help they can get&#8212;especially these days. Even if these items aren&#8217;t checking your boxes, I hope it introduces you to some new places to shop. <em>Enjoy!</em> </p><p>This first guide hits closest to my own desires <em>and</em> a few things I have and recommend for anyone who likes to entertain, cook, or simply treat themselves: </p><h2>Gifts for the Hosting Types</h2><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vFQj!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffa52dd83-f0b4-479e-a594-cd5c4ccb3dc8_1632x1962.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vFQj!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ffa52dd83-f0b4-479e-a594-cd5c4ccb3dc8_1632x1962.jpeg 424w, 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</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.eastfork.com/products/east-fork-bitty-bowl-3?variant=40637083877455">Bitty bowls</a> &amp; <a href="https://www.eastfork.com/products/east-fork-breakfast-bowl?variant=40637429612623">Breakfast bowls</a> by East Fork $48 / $95 <br><em>I use these for kitchen prep and condiments all the time!</em> </p></li><li><p><a href="https://firstbloomcornerstore.myshopify.com/products/variety-pack-3-pack">Tomato Sauces by Alison Roman</a> via First Bloom $30 <br>She says they&#8217;ll be back in stock soon! They&#8217;re <em>delicious</em>.</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/1272229448/vintage-style-brass-over-aluminum-to-the?ls=s&amp;ga_order=most_relevant&amp;ga_search_type=all&amp;ga_view_type=gallery&amp;ga_search_query=the+bar+brass+sign&amp;ref=sr_gallery-1-11&amp;sr_prefetch=1&amp;pf_from=search&amp;sts=1&amp;nob=1&amp;content_source=3108c0bb-863c-4da2-8d24-2a71b831cca1%253ALT3d1b55d9bf4104a12f7875dc6929c285ae3526f4&amp;organic_search_click=1&amp;logging_key=3108c0bb-863c-4da2-8d24-2a71b831cca1%3ALT3d1b55d9bf4104a12f7875dc6929c285ae3526f4">To the Bar brass sign</a> via Etsy $25</p></li><li><p><em><a href="https://housesandparties.com/products/a-screaming-blast?_pos=2&amp;_sid=3e94aadd8&amp;_ss=r">A Screaming Blast </a></em><a href="https://housesandparties.com/products/a-screaming-blast?_pos=2&amp;_sid=3e94aadd8&amp;_ss=r">book</a><em> </em>by Rebecca Gardner of Houses &amp; Parties $46</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/1883099499/olives-oil-painting-impasto-still-life?ref=yr_purchases">Mini original olives painting</a> via Etsy $86-146 </p></li><li><p><a href="https://independentgoods.com/products/dachshund-long-matches?variant=39985232379969&amp;country=US&amp;currency=USD&amp;utm_medium=product_sync&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_content=sag_organic&amp;utm_campaign=sag_organic&amp;utm_campaign=gs-2019-09-08&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=smart_campaign&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=17510330113&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADNhIV1JLeZqqIBswpCA5oTI8ESNu&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwgpzIBhCOARIsABZm7vGGRQU4Tq3Eu-lAxblMJsiOLqxHnaRRHp7BSzOTZOH8UiPd3diEmqEaAkdDEALw_wcB">Very long matches</a> via Independent Goods $23</p></li><li><p><a href="https://store.scribewinery.com/Cellar?_gl=1*2q21y3*_ga*MTcxOTcwNjM3Ny4xNzYyMDI5NDY1*_ga_YC7GT7PF8M*czE3NjIwMjk0NjUkbzEkZzAkdDE3NjIwMjk1MDckajE4JGwwJGgw">Some nice wine</a> from Scribe Vineyard $38+/bottle</p></li><li><p><a href="https://bignightbk.com/products/cabi-trio">A trio awesome condiments</a> by Cabi via Big Night $36<br>These are so good and flavorful.</p></li><li><p><a href="https://food52.com/products/brass-clementine-8?variant=43588795236412">Brass clementine pieces placecard holders</a> via Food52 $99</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.eastfork.com/products/greek-salt-mill?variant=43167863472207">Copper Greek salt mill</a> via East Fork $105</p></li><li><p><a href="https://ci-daughters.com/collections/new-1/products/concha-candle-green?variant=40962187132983">Concha (shell) candle holder</a> by Carolina Irving &amp; Daughters $55 each</p></li><li><p><em><a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/something-from-nothing-a-cookbook-alison-roman/66559343c7aa24bf?ean=9781984826411&amp;next=t&amp;next=t&amp;affiliate=2186&amp;prhc=PRHEFFDF5A7F1">Something from Nothing </a></em><a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/something-from-nothing-a-cookbook-alison-roman/66559343c7aa24bf?ean=9781984826411&amp;next=t&amp;next=t&amp;affiliate=2186&amp;prhc=PRHEFFDF5A7F1">cookbook by Alison Roman</a> via Bookshop.org $32</p></li><li><p><a href="https://housesandparties.com/products/set-of-60-cocktail-napkins">Funny cocktail napkins</a> by Houses &amp; Parties $60</p></li><li><p><em><a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/having-people-over-a-modern-guide-to-planning-throwing-and-attending-every-type-of-party-chelsea-fagan/73327710dc5b5944?ean=9780593836866&amp;next=t">Having People Over</a></em> by Chelsea Fagan via Bookshop.org $27 </p></li></ol><p>I hope you like the first batch of goodies. More to come! </p><h6>*AI police: I have <em>always</em> written using em dashes. I know the keystroke like I know how to control-S save, and I have since middle school circa 1997. I do use AI at work sometimes, but this is my sanctuary, and no such tool is being employed here. That would frankly be pointless. Kisses! </h6>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>